- from the oodles of weddings I have photographed, I have seen A LOT of beautiful and dazzling celebrations! Here are just a few small ideas I would love to share from my experience and observing….
The best advice I can give is, “it’s all about attitude!” The quicker you take on an easy- going outlook when it comes to your big day, the more perfect, fun and memorable it will be. If you start stressing out about every detail, big or small, YOU will make your day miserable. So I strongly suggest you hire a wedding planner or at least a day-of coordinator! You’re Done Planning On Your Day! Your wedding coordinator will solve all the little things that go wrong that day (inevitably something will go wrong). Other than that, sit back, relax and enjoy the day- it should be one of the best days of your life, not a day full of stress (:
People who are going to be part of your big day, wedding party, photographer, florist, and wedding planner, etc… they should all fit well with your personality. It’s a long day and you want to make sure you are surrounded by people that you enjoy and are fabulous! (call me if you need any recommendations).
Have your hair and makeup professionally done. Play music you love while getting ready and just enjoy it all! Also light snacks, champagne and water for your girls.
I would suggest and have heard from pervious brides to leave for your honeymoon two days after your wedding. If you get married on a Saturday, leave on a Monday. This will give you a day to say good-bye to our family and friends who drove or flew in for our wedding and then have the rest of the day to relax, pack for the honeymoon, or stay in bed all day together.
My biggest complaint for me is my tired feet! So I would suggest on having a pair of comfy shoes for your reception. If you never wear them, so what. Your wedding shoes may be “so comfy” but after standing non-stop for 12 hours, your feet will kill for some cushion and thank you.
My photography recommendations…Take engagement photos! It will really helped you to relax for the wedding photos and you will have wonderful pictures of the two of you doing things that you love to do together. Take the time to write out a list of “must have” photos – people and poses you like. We photographers are not mind readers! This sounds obvious but dance together! I have been to many weddings where the bride and groom aren’t dancing together. Also choose a photographer that offers a website or a slideshow of your wedding day. You will have several people that will not be able to attend your wedding, therefore you will be able to give them the log on information to the pictures. I always get replies back from people that they felt as if they had been at the wedding. And always have a smile on your face (:
If you see something you love, go with it. Take in every second of your special day. It all happens so fast. Get the big things accomplished and book as early as possible so you can concentrate on the details. Above all, remember that this is a celebration! Keep perspective, relax and have fun. As long as it took for your wedding day to arrive, the day will go by too quickly, so have fun and be proud of all your hard work – Much Love XOXO
I can’t post without a photo (; so I took Presly this evening to this beautiful field of wild poppies right outside my office - I love this time of year!
